Reader Question:

Hi David,

I’m 60 years of age, very healthy, very energetic, and a really great girl. I experienced a really cold marriage for more than thirty years. We joined up with Match.com as soon as I separated, had a couple of tiinterracial dating near mes (these were awful), then one popped upwards. I have dated him off and on for two decades. He told me the guy likes me personally, but he disappears always. I see him for a few times, then he’s eliminated for just two to three weeks. He had been hitched for 3 decades and contains three young children (similar to me) and claims he’s devotion dilemmas and is watching a therapist about this. His girlfriend cheated on him and then he provides drug and liquor problems.

Ought I look at this man are poisonous? If he contacts myself once again (that I suspect he’ll), ought I tell him to not ever get in touch with me any longer, or must I only let him know i like being with him but are leaving my options open to time others?

-Nancy (California)

David Wygant’s response:

Should you take into account he toxic?  No.

I would personally think about him is a booty phone call.

That is all he’s.  He is a booty call.

The guy does not want to dedicate.  He’s picking out quite a few excuses, and yet he loves to appear over and fool around.

When one really does that, all he is performing is using you as an intimate spouse.

Confront him about it if you would like, but men like him can make right up some sort of tale to not end up being stop intimately.

Very move ahead and  get a hold of somebody who is deserving of you.

The amount of time you’ve been wasting thinking about him and being with him is actually time you will be meeting a new man.

Enjoy the procedure!

David